These Walls Between Us - by Wendy Sanford (Paperback)
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<p/><br></br><p><b> About the Book </b></p></br></br>In <i>These Walls Between Us</i> established feminist author Wendy Sanford, who is white, reflects on her complex lifelong friendship with Mary Norman, who is Black--exploring her formation in a narrow world of class and race privilege, lifting up the writings and social movements that changed her views and her life, and examining a sixty-year interracial friendship that evolved in the context of white supremacy.<p/><br></br><p><b> Book Synopsis </b></p></br></br>In the mid-1950s, a fifteen-year-old African American teenager named Mary White (now Mary Norman) traveled north from Virginia to work for twelve-year-old Wendy Sanford's family as a live-in domestic for their summer vacation by a remote New England beach. Over the years, Wendy's family came to depend on Mary's skilled service--and each summer, Mary endured the extreme loneliness of their elite white beachside retreat in order to support her family. As the Black "help" and the privileged white daughter, Mary and Wendy were not slated for friendship. But years later--each divorced, each a single parent, Mary now a rising officer in corrections and Wendy a feminist health activist--they began to walk the beach together after dark, talking about their children and their work, and a friendship began to grow. <p/> <p/>Based on decades' worth of visits, phone calls, letters, and texts between Mary and Wendy, <i>These Walls Between Us</i> chronicles the two women's friendship, with a focus on what Wendy characterizes as her "oft-stumbling efforts, as a white woman, to see Mary more fully and to become a more dependable friend." The book examines obstacles created by Wendy's upbringing in a narrow, white, upper-class world; reveals realities of domestic service rarely acknowledged by white employers; and draws on classic works by the African American writers whose work informed and challenged Wendy along the way. Though Wendy is the work's primary author, Mary read and commented on every draft--and together, the two friends hope their story will incite and support white readers to become more informed and accountable friends across the racial divides created by white supremacy and to become active in the ongoing movement for racial justice. <p/><p/><br></br><p><b> Review Quotes </b></p></br></br><br>"This tender and evocative story about friendship across racial and class lines is told with unflagging honesty and is an important guide for living in this time of racial reckoning."<br> --Catherine Whitmire, author of <i>Practicing Peace: A Devotional Walk through the Quaker Tradition</i> and <i>Plain Living: A Quaker Path to Simplicity </i> <p/> "The politics are crystal clear at all levels, the characters are fascinating and it's a superb read! Sanford presents the humanity of the characters, in all their contradictoriness, while remaining unrelenting in her condemnation of systemic racial and class violence. White people are all complicit in racism, and all responsible for taking it down, relationship by relationship. This memoir shows how tortuous and slippery that is . . . and yet, between humans who will recognize one another as such, always possible."<br> --James Seale-Collazo, Faculty, Escuela Secondaria, University of Puerto Rico <p/> "This is powerful book with an important lesson that we all must learn in trying to understand others--a book that both blacks and whites should read so that we can enter into a productive dialogue with each other."<br> --Rev. John Reynolds, author of <i>The Fight for Freedom</i> <p/> "A compelling take on how our personal experiences of racism arise from the history and structures of white supremacy, and an emotional glimpse into a lifetime anti-racism journey. Non-profit board members, government leaders, and executives from all sectors will be transformed by Wendy's journey and her painfully earned pearls of wisdom in her effort to become an anti-racist white person." <br> --Sue Gallagher, EdD, Chief Innovation Officer, Children's Services Council of Broward County, FL <p/> "I found <i>These Walls Between Us</i> very informative, especially the way the author deconstructs the subtle and overt ways that white privilege influences the lives of so many. White privilege is like an invisible thread that maintains the status quo. Thank goodness Wendy Sanford is doing the work that only she can do!" <br> --Byllye Avery, MacArthur Genius Grant Winner, Founder, Black Women's Health Imperative <p/> "A repurposed white identity that separates itself from internalized white supremacist ideology brings joy and satisfaction to human rights work by embracing the power of hope and transformation. <i>These Walls Between Us</i> models such reclamation for everyone." <br> --Loretta J. Ross, founder of Dred Feminist, activist, visiting associate professor at Smith College, and author of <i>Reproductive Justice: An Introduction </i> <p/> "Finally, a story from a white woman raised with 'help' who interrogates the relationship's complexities. As Wendy looks inwards to examine her socialization into a racial hierarchy and strives to break from her inherited role in order to step differently into a potential friendship with Mary, I found myself gripped by the overwhelming forces working against both of them. Their mutual love and courage to choose differently again and again renders a tender, honest, cringeworthy, and powerful read." <br> --Debby Irving, author of <i>Waking Up White: And Finding Myself in the Story of Race</i> <p/> "This tender and evocative story about friendship across racial and class lines is an important guide for living into this time of racial reckoning. Sanford's unflinching honesty, insight, and wisdom had me saying, out loud, again and again, 'Wow, that is so true!'" <br> --Catherine Whitmire, author of <i>Practicing Peace: A Devotional Walk through the Quaker Tradition</i> and <i>Plain Living: A Quaker Path to Simplicity</i> <p/> "A Black woman and a white woman forge a friendship against the odds. Unique, fascinating, and complex, Wendy Sanford's wonderful memoir is so rare and engaging that I read the book continuously over twelve hours without wanting to stop." <br> --Peggy McIntosh, senior research scientist and former associate director of the Wellesley Centers for Women and author of <i>White Privilege: Unpacking the Invisible Knapsack</i> and <i>On Privilege, Fraudulence, and Teaching As Learning: Selected Essays 1981-2019</i> <p/> "In this beautifully written, bravely honest exploration, Wendy Sanford insightfully explores the class, racial, and--to a lesser degree--gender dynamics that emanate from and reinforce inequalities in the US. In doing so, she contributes significantly to our understanding of how those hierarchies are maintained." <br> --Judith Rollins, Professor Emerita, Wellesley College, and author of <i>Between Women: Domestics and Their Employers </i><br>
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