I Only Say This Because I Love You - by Deborah Tannen (Paperback)
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<p/><br></br><p><b> About the Book </b></p></br></br>The acclaimed author of the bestselling "You Just Don't Understand" illuminates "the language of everyday conversation"--this time for family members.<p/><br></br><p><b> Book Synopsis </b></p></br></br><b>Why does talk in families so often go in circles, leaving us tied up in knots? In this illuminating book, Deborah Tannen, the linguist and and bestselling author of <i>You Just Don't Understand</i> and many other books, reveals why talking to family members is so often painful and problematic even when we're all adults. </b> <p/>Searching for signs of acceptance and belonging, we find signs of disapproval and rejection. Why do the seeds of family love so often yield a harvest of criticism and judgment? In <i>I Only Say This Because I Love You, </i> Tannen shows how important it is, in family talk, to learn to separate word meanings, or messages, from heart meanings, or metamessages --unstated but powerful meanings that come from the history of our relationships and the way things are said. <p/>Presenting real conversations from people's lives, Tannen reveals what is actually going on in family talk, including how family conversations must balance the longing for connection with the desire for control, as we struggle to be close without giving up our freedom. <p/> This eye-opening book explains why grown women so often feel criticized by their mothers; and why mothers feel they can't open their mouths around their grown daughters; why growing up male or female, or as an older or younger sibling, results in different experiences of family that persist throughout our lives; and much, much more. By helping us to understand and redefine family talk, Tannen provides the tools to improve relationships with family members of every age.<p/><br></br><p><b> Review Quotes </b></p></br></br><br>Praise for <b>You Just Don't Understand</b> <p/>"Tannen has a marvelous ear for the way real people express themselves and a scientist's command of the inner structure of speech and human relationships."<br>--Jonathan Kirsch, <i>Los Angeles Times<br></i><br>"Goes a long way toward explaining why perfectly wonderful men and women behave in ways that baffle their partners."<br>-- Judy Mann, The Washington Post <p/>"This book, written by a linguistics expert so you have to believe she knows what she's talking about could be the Rosetta Stone that deciphers the miscommunication between the sexes."<br>-- Ruthe Stein, <i>San Francisco Chronicle<br></i><br>"This book will help many put their problems of communication with the opposite sex in manageable perspective."<br>-- Ruth Rose, <i>The New York Times Book Review<br></i><br>"Deborah Tannen combines a novelist's ear for the way people speak with a rare power of original analysis. It is this that makes her an extraordinary sociolinguist, and... her book such a fascinating look at that crucial social cement, conversation."<br>-- Oliver Sacks<br><p/><br></br><p><b> About the Author </b></p></br></br>Deborah Tannen is the author of <b>You Just Don't Understand</b>, which was on the <i>New York Times</i> bestseller list for nearly four years, including eight months at number one, and has been translated into twenty-six languages. Among her many books are<b> The Argument Culture</b>, <b>Talking from 9 to 5</b>, and <b>That's Not What I Meant</b>! A linguistics professor at Georgetown University in Washington, D.C., she is a frequent guest on such radio and television shows as <i>The Oprah Winfrey Show, Today, Good Morning America, CNN's TalkBack Live, </i> and <i>NPR's All Things Considered</i>.
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