Loving Your Children More Than You Hate Each Other - by Lauren J Behrman & Jeffrey Zimmerman (Paperback)
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<p/><br></br><p><b> About the Book </b></p></br></br>As divorce rates rise, parents need resources to help them navigate high-conflict situations and put their children first. <i>Loving Your Children More Than You Hate Each Other</i> offers practical tips and strategies to help parents manage intense emotions, deal with shame and blame, and create a peaceful, loving environment for their children using dialectical behavioral therapy (DBT) and values-based parenting.<p/><br></br><p><b> Book Synopsis </b></p></br></br><p><b>Hate your ex but love your kids? If so, this much-needed guide offers practical tips and strategies to help you manage intense emotions, deal with shame and blame, and create a peaceful, loving environment for your children.</b></p><p>Let's face it--divorce is tough. In a high-conflict divorce, your ex may attempt to undermine your relationship with your children, blame you for the failed marriage, and be hostile toward you in general. Unfortunately, this negativity can affect your kids, too. You need to break the cycle of rage and conflict now, for their sake. This book can help.</p><p><i>Loving Your Children More Than You Hate Each Other</i> offers powerful skills based in dialectical behavior therapy (DBT) and values-based parenting to help you both take control of your emotions. You'll get tools to help you identify cycles of conflict, as well as strategies for breaking these cycles before they get out of hand. You'll also learn strategies to effectively communicate with one another and your children in a way that is healthy and productive.</p><p>If you're going through a high-conflict divorce, you need real tools to help you manage the pain and anger that can follow. This book will show you the skills you need to go from <i>ex </i>to <i>co-parent</i>, and start rebuilding your--and your child's--life.</p><p/><br></br><p><b> Review Quotes </b></p></br></br><br>"<i>Loving Your Children More Than You Hate Each Other</i> is an easy-to-read, practical guide for parents to reduce conflict and recover from divorce by focusing on the needs of their children. Parents will identify with the emotional challenges that are described and, through meaningful exercises, move into a new, more resilient and centered place. Behrman and Zimmerman walk parents through this recovery process, incorporating vignettes parents can identify with and ideas from brain science, mindfulness, and DBT to develop skills and techniques that reduce anger and build coping. This is a must-read for parents in conflict who want to move on, focus on raising healthy and well-adjusted children, and learn life skills that make them feel like heroes, rather than survivors or victims." <br><b>--</b><b>Robin M. Deutsch, PhD, ABPP</b>, director of the Center of Excellence for Children, Families and the Law; professor in the clinical psychology doctoral program at William James College; and coauthor of <i>7 Things Your Teenager Won't Tell You</i>--Robin M. Deutsch, PhD, ABPP<br><br>"Expertly weaving contributions from our understanding of the grief process, DBT, mindfulness, and their own extensive work with high-conflict co-parents, the authors provide professionals and parents a guide to healing and building respectful and functional co-parenting relationships, even when they would rather keep fighting. The beneficiaries of this well-organized, practical book are children and building a societal ethic of cooperative shared parenting." <br><b>--Matthew Sullivan, PhD</b>, founder of Overcoming Barriers, a nonprofit organization that provides training and programs for high-conflict shared custody; coauthor of <i>Overcoming the Co-Parenting Trap</i>--Matthew Sullivan, PhD<br><br>"I recommend this practical and insightful book to all parents who love their children and seek to preserve their well-being during and after divorce." <br><b>--Hon. Sondra M. Miller</b>, Retired Justice of the Appellate Division of the Supreme Court, Second Department--Hon. Sondra M. Miller<br><br>"In this book, Lauren Behrman and Jeffrey Zimmerman have given divorcing parents a remarkable resource for 'radical acceptance' of one's former spouse as he or she actually is--the starting point for putting aside attachment to who is right and who is wrong, and instead cultivating the conditions in oneself for doing the best possible job of minimizing conflict and maximizing good parenting. Behrman and Zimmerman translate wisdom from many traditions--psychotherapy, brain science, dialectical behavior therapy (DBT), mindful awareness, and much more into very practical tools and techniques for moving from victimhood toward competency and equanimity. While their book is addressed to parents in high-conflict divorces, the techniques they offer can make the challenges of raising kids in two households easier for every divorcing couple." <br><b>--Pauline H. Tesler</b>, longtime family law specialist, fellow of the select American Academy of Matrimonial Lawyers, and founding director of the Integrative Law Institute at Commonweal--Pauline H. Tesler<br><p/><br></br><p><b> About the Author </b></p></br></br><b>Lauren J. Behrman, PhD</b>, is a clinical psychologist with over thirty-three years in independent practice helping adults, children, and families work through transitions. She has evaluated and treated children and families since 1976 at Schneider Children's Hospital, Nassau BOCES, and as chief psychologist at the Child Development Center of the Jewish Board of Family and Children's Services from 1985-1994. Behrman completed her postdoctoral training in child, adolescent, and family psychoanalytic psychotherapy at the Postgraduate Center for Mental Health in 1990.She has taught and supervised doctoral candidates, was adjunct professor in the graduate psychology departments at Long Island University, Yeshiva University, and New York University. She is a frequent presenter, author, teacher, and trainer for professionals in Basic Collaborative Divorce Practice. Behrman is a founding partner of The Practice Institute and the Center for Advanced Professional Education at University of Redlands in Redlands, CA. She is in independent practice in New York City and Westchester County, NY. You can find Behrman on the web at www.laurenbehrmanphd.com, and can read and subscribe to the authors' blog and newsletter at www.mydivorcerecovery.com. <p/><b>Jeffrey Zimmerman, PhD, ABPP</b>, is a licensed psychologist with offices in New York City and Westchester County, NY, and Connecticut. He has over thirty-five years of experience working with families and individuals experiencing the stress of separation and divorce. He is coauthor of articles on divorce, as well as two related books: <i>The Co-Parenting Survival Guide</i> and <i>Adult Children of Divorce</i>. Zimmerman received the Distinguished Contribution to the Practice of Psychology Award from the Connecticut Psychological Association for his work with high-conflict families of divorce. He is trained as a mediator, parenting coordinator, and collaborative divorce professional. He is a frequent speaker, trainer, and mentor of other professionals and graduate students. He is also founding partner of The Practice Institute. You can find out more about Zimmerman on the web at www.jeffzimmermanphd.com.
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